Good relationships don’t just happen overnight. It take work, commitment and a whole lot of effort!
Here are 7 key steps that you can implement into your relationship. Give it a try!
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF
This is the most important choice you can make to improve your relationship. This means that you learn how to take responsibility for your own feelings and your emotional needs. This means that instead of trying to get your partner to make you feel happy and secure, you must learn how to do this for yourself through your own thoughts and your actions.
This means learning to treat yourself with kindness, caring, compassion, and acceptance instead of self-judgment. Self-judgment will only make you feel unhappy and will cause excess stress on your relationship.
For example, instead of getting angry at your partner for your emotions of abandonment when he or she is late, busy and not listening to you, not turned on sexually, and so on, you would explore your own feelings of abandonment and discover that you are possibly abandoning yourself. Continue Reading